I thought I should up-date you all as to the outcome of everything that had happened, seen as its now 2016. Its been well over 1year now after the start of what I can only describe as a living hell and the worst experience of my life to date.
After I left the hospital I was told it was a child in need assessment after having been told it was child protection and having to insist they inform me as to the nature of their assessment, I also did an access request and received a bundle of information (some that I wasn't supposed to receive, NHS data breach) I managed to get my hand on 2 child protection meeting minutes that was secretly held behind my back. What was on it was disturbing and absolutely scarily contradicting in each paragraph. I would have won a court hearing on this alone, inside this was also a MARCA Meeting Notes from when I left DV (I don't know why that was in there as it was well before the event but it was), I was under constant monitoring by my children's school, being called to the Drs with my son for no reason, The health Visitor was obstructive. I bought a Dictaphone, and CCTV to capture every meeting and every phone call, every visit to the Drs, which was a tiring process, I created a folder bundled with categorised research and information. What I gathered would leave anyone shocked. I gathered mass amounts of evidence against social services, nhs, health visitor involved. I was assessed over a period of nearly 6 months, by 3 different social workers, who all come to the same conclusion. That I am a good mother.
I still have my 4 beautiful children. they never did remove them and I also won my complaint and received compensation for my financial losses after an independent investigator (paid for by social services) found partly in my favour and highlighted that it was an NHS Dr who kept re-opening the case for what was described as weak reasons - After extensive research I stumbled over something disturbing but don't quite understand how this group works or why they are even a group. The Dr who did this to me, is a member of PACA (Professionals Against Child Abuse) who's chairman John Bridson is friends of Roy Meadow (who came up with the MSBP profiling in 1977) and was later struck off by the GMC for being misleading and giving false information which lead to a lady being wrongly imprisoned and David Southall who specialised in FII/MSBP was struck off in 2010 by the GMC for also being professionally misleading. There is one existing list that I have found that has all the members of PACA on it, some of these doctors are retired and some however are active, and are quite high up in medical profession - they hold a lot of weight which is why they are able to influence other medical professionals, Social Services and other such connected organisations. I do have an opinion on this group after what I have read and researched about their connections to each-other and to the MSBP/FII profiling, my suggestion to others would be to research! find the list and check the name of the lead professional against it if your being accused of MSBP - from what I have read these active doctors are largely responsible for parents being falsely accused of this MSBP.
In my case; from the words of the Social Workers after I asked if he could do this to me again they stated "once bitten twice shy". I have the paperwork still and will be going to the GMC with my findings, I doubt I will get far due to the fact of whom I am up against. I am just one voice in billions and know I will not be heard.
I also partly won my complaint with the NHS (no compensation was given but they promised to mass produce procedural leaflets and re-educate their staff members on reading clinical notes at transfere).
I also partly won my complaint with the health visitors who I proved inaccurately and falsely recorded information on their system data base. I never won it fully because they state they simply cannot remember every little detail
After all this was over I just wanted to live to enjoy my children and my life. Those 6 months felt like a life time, it was horrendous no words can capture how it was emotionally.
Now I am living a peaceful life which is all I wanted from the get-go, I am thankful everyday that I have my children, I would hate to think what would have happened had I not been as diligent as I was.
I am left with absolute distrust of the NHS, to the point I am terrified of Drs. The lying, the false accusations, the contradictions - its unbelievable. What I read about myself was awful. This Dr had never met me, never met my son and so ridiculously made up and twisted what every he could to keep finding reasons to re-open assessments.
What was worse was the fact that whilst I was going through all the above I was also prosecuting my violent ex partner who was found guilty of x2 battery offences.
I am just pleased its over I doubt I will ever forget 2014, but I will move on the best I can.
All the best to you all,